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Why Self-Care isn't Always Enough
I'd like to continue the conversation we started last month about self-care. If you missed that convo, you can catch up on it here. The...

Kezia
Jul 7, 20242 min read
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Your Guide to Guilt-free Self Care
Do you feel guilty when you practice self-care? If so, you're not alone. Let's talk about how to grow into a guilt-free approach to tending

Kezia
May 31, 20244 min read
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Therapy Meets Mysticism: A How-to Guide to Embodied Spirituality
If your approach to life isn't turning out practical results that make your everyday reality better on an ongoing basis, it's time for a...

Kezia
Feb 26, 20243 min read
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When Change Happens: 5 Gentle Tips
"When you have the support you need, change can go from being scary and overwhelming to being a space where you feel agency and freedom...

Kezia
Dec 7, 20233 min read
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How Spirituality can Improve Trauma Healing
Healing from past trauma of any sort is a long and layered process! There's no one "answer" or therapeutic modality that's going to...

Kezia
Sep 19, 20234 min read
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10 Marks of the Self-Aware Person
Few people know themselves deeply. My recent research, writing, and conversations about self-awareness have pushed me to develop more...

Kezia
Sep 6, 20233 min read
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Day of Gold
Light-hearted reflections on the energetic signature of gold.

Kezia
Aug 15, 20232 min read
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Plantain: A Parable
I’ve always admired the parable as a teaching device. It’s a storytelling form that uses the mundane, relatable stuff of daily life to...

Kezia
Jul 12, 20223 min read
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Chocolate Cake, Salt Baths, and Nuances
A few days ago, I reposted a meme on one of my social media accounts. It said, “True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake. It...

Kezia
Jul 5, 20225 min read
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Real Life Stories
Life isn’t a comic book tale: there are no villains and no superheroes. In real life, humans are too complex for such categories. I’m...

Kezia
Apr 5, 20222 min read
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A Blessing for When Life is in Ruins
I wrote this blessing nearly a year ago after a few hours spent sitting with the story of a hurting woman. Sharing it today, lightly...

Kezia
Mar 10, 20221 min read
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A Message in Brussels Sprouts
Step number one: “Trim any unsightly parts.” That’s how the instructions started. They were instructions for how to roast brussels...

Kezia
Jan 23, 20223 min read
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Finding our Way Home
As I see it, at the heart of all healing and therapeutic endeavors is a longing for relationship. Those who seek healing want--perhaps...

Kezia
Jan 11, 20222 min read
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Introductions and Expectations
Welcome to The Whole Self. I’m Kezia, and you can learn a bit more of my story on the “about me” page of my website. My goal in this post...

Kezia
Jan 7, 20222 min read
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